Saturday, August 23, 2008

Go Cougars!

My little sister started 8th grade on Monday and had her first school softball game today--a double header. It was pretty hot out, so Drew and I only made it to part of her first game.





Drew was "off schedule" today, so when I put him down for his nap, he threw quite the fit on me! Then he started coughing and it sounded like he was going to get choked, so I went back into his room to get him, and as soon as I did...he threw up on both of us! So, I stripped him down, changed my shirt, and did something I haven't done in a while - rocked him to sleep! Then I put him on the couch and watched t.v. while he slept...

Monday, August 18, 2008

He said "Ba!"

The last couple of days I thought I noticed Drew making a "b" sound, but I wasn't sure. Today, when his speech therapist was here, she said that it was definitely a "b" sound! Yay Drew!!!! It's kind of like "mmmm,ba" so not a 'strong b' yet, but we'll take it! Hopefully "d" will be next -- I know that Jon would be so happy if Drew said "dada."

Saturday, August 16, 2008

A Weekend of Parties

Friday night, Drew, Jon, Whitney, and I went to a "Welcome Home" party at one of our friend's house. He lives way out in the county, but Drew enjoyed the trip on the gravels! They had tons of great food and then fireworks!

Drew loved the big pumpkin they grew!


A view from our friend's back porch...beautiful!




Whitney stayed the night with us last night. This morning, her and Drew played with (in) the grocery cart and watched a little Baby E!



Then later today, we celebrated my Nanny and Poppy's 50th anniversary!



Then we went to my mom and step-dad's where Drew is spending the night! Jon and I are getting ready to watch a movie (once he gets back from going on a popcorn run). I think it's the first movie we've rented since Drew has been born!

Pictures from my mom's...




Deep thought...


Tomorrow the weekend of parties continues with a bridal shower!

Friday, August 15, 2008

In Remembrance

In remembrance of my Papa, William Ronald Baldwin
2/19/1940 to 8/15/2006

He was my grandpa, but was more like a dad to me. And for good reason since I spent every summer and every weekend with my Mama and Papa until my teenage years!

I know that Drew would have loved his Papa just as much as I did. I like to think that Papa is Drew's guardian angel -- watching over him everyday and helping him through the hard times.

I love and miss you Papa!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Playing Ball

Here are some pics of Drew playing with the ball Jaci (his speech therapist) got him!

[Note the "sniffing face" in the first one!]





Well, daddy is finishing up with Drew's nightly bowel of oatmeal, which means it's my turn to read bedtime stories! Drew loves being read to. We always finish with Goodnight Moon, which makes him so sleepy :)

What's Next?

Since Drew had his palate surgery, I have had a lot of people ask, "Is that it?" Sounds like an easy enough question to answer, but it is actually very complicated. I found a website that does a good job explaining this "simple" question, so here it is...

Other Operations. For children born with a cleft of the lip and palate, there are additional operations that may be required. Most children with a cleft lip, even if the palate is not affected, require one or more operations to normalize the appearance of the nose. The first of these is often performed at the same time as the lip repair. Subsequent operations are typically scheduled before the child enters mainstream school, and during teenage years.

As for the palate, somewhere around one out of every five children might require a secondary operation to improve speech.

For any child with a cleft that extends through the gum line (as with a complete cleft palate -- which is what Drew had), bone must be placed into this cleft in order for the upper canine tooth to erupt. This operation is typically performed before, or around, 10-years of age. This bone usually comes from the hip.

One of the last operations a child might need is called a LeFort I. This operation brings the upper jaw further forward. Many children, especially those born with a bilateral cleft lip, will show deficient growth of the upper jaw (it does not grow far enough forward). The LeFort I is typically performed when growth is completed (15-years old in girls, and 16 to 17-years old in boys). This operation not only helps the teeth to fit together better, but it also may provide a significant improvement in the child's overall appearance (provided that the lower jaw is not simultaneously set back).

It's me again...we have also been told to be prepared for orthodontics! Some work will be necessary before the bone graft to get his gums ready and then he will need braces afterwards too.

So, the simplest answer to the above question would be, "Drew only has the bone graft surgery left." However, additional surges may be necessary (unfortunately). And don't forget about his ear tubes needing replaced...

See why I would sometimes become agitated when people would say, "That can be fixed," because while true, there are A LOT of steps that going into fixing it. And please don't take this the wrong way. I know that there were far more complicated things that could have been wrong with Drew and I am so thankful that what he did have could be fixed. I just don't think most people understand all of the surgeries (and speech therapy) that can be involved, so hopefully this helps!

One more thing cleft related... Before I discovered these blogs, I ran across the following website, which I thought had some good pictures. I ran across it while looking for information on teeth. It chronicles the life of Miss Stella who is now almost 6!

http://www.pbase.com/stella97king/cleft_lip&page=all

It then continues at the following site:

http://www.pbase.com/stella97king/cleft_lip_five_years_after&page=all

Monday, August 11, 2008

Speech Day!

Drew had speech therapy today. He is still saying "ma" for everything, but I truly think he tries to say all kinds of words, but he just hasn't figured out how to push air out of his mouth yet.

The therapy session is basically a play session during which Jaci tries to get Drew to say words like "ball," "puppy," "push," "more," "bubbles," and "pop." He is suppose to learn how to make the "m, b, and p" sounds first. She also tries to plug his nose when he says ball to prevent the air from coming out of his nose, but he is not a fan of nose plugging... Miss Jaci also brought Drew a belated birthday gift and guess what is was??? A new ball! He of course loved it!

Eating has still been going good (but slow!). Daddy helped him with dinner tonight, which was a grilled cheese (with a little bit of shaved ham), carrots, and applesauce. He also helped daddy eat his spaghetti and then had a bit of angel food cake for dessert. This took about an hour! He just sits there and eats and eats and eats! So far he has liked everything we have given him and also liked every kind of baby food. I hope he keeps up these healthy eating habits because I have never been a healthy eater. (I'm one of those people who always orders their sandwiches plain -- Subway loves me!). Dinner started at 5:30 and lasted 'til about 6:30. Then he had his snack before bed around 8:00, so I think he went to bed on a full stomach tonight!!!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Weekend Re-cap

Well, we actually had a pretty quiet weekend, which was nice because things have been so busy lately! The excitement of the weekend was probably our family outing to the grocery store today!

Drew has been on a one nap a day schedule since right after his first birthday. He usually sleeps right around 2 hours (from 1 to 3). The past few days, though, he had been taking shorter naps -- like around an hour and a half, which makes for a fussy boy at night! We had been laying him down a bit later since he was sleeping later in the morning, but I read that sometimes your baby will sleep longer for their nap if you lay them down earlier and before they really get tired. So today he woke up around 8am and I put him down for his nap right at 1 even though he didn't seem tired. He fussed for a minute or so and then fell asleep and stayed asleep for 2 hours and 45 minutes!! I think that is his longest nap ever! Hopefully he'll keep that up because I was able to get a lot of cleaning and other stuff done!!

We have also still been on the "no baby food" diet. His average meal is taking about an hour because he is such a slow chewer. I may have mentioned before that I am not much of a cook so I've kind of dreaded having to come up with healthy foods for him to eat. I ended up buying some of the meals that Gerber makes and he has been eating them good. For lunch today he had beef ravioli (Gerber meal) and carrots. Then for dinner he has mac and cheese w/peas and carrots (another Gerber meal) and blueberries. I'm always asking moms for advice on easy but healthy meal ideas for lunch and dinner so if anyone would like to share any, that would be great!

Here is a pic at dinner time. Oh, and that is a big mosquito bite on his cheek. I had mosquito spray on his arms and legs, but one landed right on his cheek yesterday and I immediately shewed it off, but I guess it must have gotten him fast!

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Miracle Treat Day

Today was Miracle Treat Day at participating Dairy Queen's. [http://www.miracletreatday.com/] All of the proceeds from the purchase of a blizzard went to the Children's Miracle Network. One of the hospitals our local DQ donates to is St. Louis Children's Hospital (where Drew goes) so we headed out for some ice cream after dinner! Jon and I both ordered large blizzards (even though neither one of us could eat it all) and Drew had a bowl of vanilla ice cream. He couldn't get enough of it! After every bite he would say "ma" (which means more!!!).

Here we are enjoying our treats:




Drew says, "That was GOOD!"

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Drew's New Do / The Never Ending Dinner

First of all, guess who found their nose? I took this with my camera phone on the way home from my mom's house...



Here is a funny picture of Drew. If we breath really loud out of our nose, he will do it to! I call it his sniffing face!

And yes, his Aunt Whitney gave him a Mohawk today!


Tonight for dinner, Drew had a grilled cheese, green beans, and peaches. It was the first time he had a whole meal of table food! He has never been a fan of green beans, but will usually eat a few of them. It was funny because after he ate a few, he was taking them and throwing them onto the floor! He really liked the grilled cheese (it was his first) and an hour and 15 minutes later (yes, I said an hour and 15 minutes) the whole thing was pretty much gone! We have been giving him his Nuby cup again, but he won't hardly drink out of it. He will drink out of the little open top cups though. I think we have made him lazy though, because he wants us to hold it for him...